Hawk,Skully,Messenger and Wolfy,
I have not heard anything back from the Dad at all. I am hesitant to telephone him as his marriage must be rocky with all that is happened. I thought that if his wife found that another woman called it might create more problems for him. I hope that some of you have been able to make contact. An I being too conservative?
Here is another thread with an address where cards can be sent.
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.asp?id=23488&site=3